segunda-feira, julho 14, 2008

Medalha e Oração de São Bento (Pedido de proteção contra o inimigo)


*Oração de São Bento*

*Oração de São Bento*  

( Pedido de proteção contra o inimigo )

"A Cruz Sagrada seja minha Luz,
Não seja o dragão o meu guia.
Retira-te Satanás,
Nunca me aconselhes coisas vãs.
É mal o que tu me ofereces,
Bebe tu mesmo os teus venenos!

Rogai por nós bem aventurado São Bento,
Para que sejamos dignos das promessas de Cristo.

Assim Seja!  Amém!"

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*Vida de São Bento*

São Bento nasceu em 484 e foi enviado ainda jovem para Roma, a fim de estudar retórica e filosofia .

Não encontrando a realização que almejava, retirou-se para viver uma vida ascética nas montanhas fora da cidade.

Tornou-se eremita numa gruta perto de Subiaco e durante os 30 anos seguintes, a sua santidade atraiu muitos discípulos,

com quem organizou 12 pequenas comunidades monásticas.  Mas Bento era muito invejado e sofreu um atentado à vida:

diz-se que lhe ofereceram uma bebida envenenada, mas que ele  tornou inofensiva ao abençoá-la.

Pelo ano 530, foi a Monte Cassino, onde fundou o célebre mosteiro e escreveu sua famosa Regra monástica.

Morreu em 547.     Duzentos anos após sua morte, a Regra Beneditina havia se espalhado pela Europa inteira,

tornando-se a forma de vida monástica durante toda a Idade Média.

Orar e trabalhar, contemplar e agir, é a síntese da Regra de São Bento.

O Papa  Paulo VI declarou-o, em 1964,  Padroeiro  da Europa , tributando-lhe assim o reconhecimento da civilização européia .

Hoje em dia, os Beneditinos são conhecidos sobretudo como Ordem dedicada ao ensino.

 

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*A Medalha de São Bento*

Desde o Século XVII, a Medalha de São Bento é conhecida no mundo todo e tem sua aprovação com a Cruz,

a efígie de São Bento e os caracteres que ela representa, dada pelo Papa Bento XIV, em 12 de março de 1742.

A Cruz é o instrumento de redenção do mundo.  A representação da Cruz, desperta em nós todos os sentimentos de gratidão

para com Deus, pelo benefício de nossa salvação.  A efígie de São Bento, na mesma medalha com a imagem da Santa Cruz,

representa com o Sinal da Cruz, a dissipação das tentações e da quebra do cálice que continha bebida envenenada.

 

                                                                                 

 

Uma quantidade de letras, representando palavras em latim também aparece na medalha:

 

Na frente da Medalha (veja foto), são apresentados uma Cruz e entre  seus braços estão gravadas as

letras C S P B, cujo significado é, do latim: Cruz Sancti Patris Benedicti => "Cruz do Santo Pai Bento". 
  
Na haste vertical da Cruz
, lêem-se as iniciais C S S M L: Crux Sacra Sit Mihi Lux => "A Cruz Sagrada seja minha Luz". 
  
Na haste horizontal
, lêem-se as iniciais N D S M D: Non Draco Sit Mihi Dux => "Não seja o dragão meu guia". 
  
No alto da Cruz
, está gravada a palavra PAX ("Paz"), que é lema da Ordem de São Bento.

Às vezes, PAX é substituído pelo monograma de Cristo: I H S. 
  
À partir da direita de PAX
, estão as iniciais: V R S N S M V: Vade Retro Sátana Nunquam Suade Mihi Vana =>

"Retira-te, satanás, nunca me aconselhes coisas vãs!"   e    S M Q L I V B: Sunt Mala Quae Libas Ipse Venena Bibas =>

"É mal o que me ofereces, bebe tu mesmo os teus venenos!". 
  

Nas costas da Medalha está São Bento,segurando na mão esquerda o livro da Regra que escreveu para os Monges e,

na outra mão, a Cruz.     Ao redor do Santo, lê-se a seguinte jaculatória ou prece:

EIUS - IN - OBITU - NRO - PRAESENTIA - MUNIAMUR =>

"Sejamos confortados pela presença de São Bento na hora de nossa morte".  
  
É representado também a imagem de um cálice
, do qual sai uma serpente e um corvo com um pedaço de pão no bico,

lembrando as duas tentativas de envenenamento, das quais São Bento saiu, milagrosamente ileso.

 

 

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*Oração para alcançar alguma Graça*
"Ó Glorioso Patriarca São Bento, que vos mostrastes sempre compassivo com os necessitados,

fazei que também nós, recorrendo à vossa poderosa intercessão, obtenhamos auxílio em todas as nossas aflições,

que nas famílias reine a paz e a tranqüilidade; que se afastem de nós todas as desgraças, tanto corporais como espirituais,

especialmente o mal do pecado.    Alcançai do Senhor a Graça…...... que vos suplicamos, finalmente,

vos pedimos que ao término de nossa vida terrestre, possamos ir louvar a Deus convosco no Paraíso.  Amém!"

 

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*OUTRA ORAÇÃO A SÃO BENTO*

 

"Glorioso São Bento, sublime modelo de virtude e pureza e cheio das Graças de Deus,

abrace este seu fiel servo, que a seus pés humildemente se ajoelha.

Eu imploro a vós e à vossa bondade, que erga suas Preces por mim ao Trono do Senhor.

A vós eu recorro, proteja-me dos perigos que me rodeiam no cotidiano,

Que seu escudo me proteja contra meu egoísmo e minha indiferença a Deus e ao próximo.

Me inspire em imitá-lo em todas as coisas, meu querido São Bento!

Possa a sua Bênção estar comigo para sempre, de modo que eu possa sempre ver Cristo no próximo e

trabalhar para o Seu Reino.   Espero que com sua Graça, obtenha para mim junto a Deus, aqueles favores e Graças

que eu preciso, para conseguir vencer as tentações, as misérias e aflições do dia a dia .

Que seu coração sempre repleto de amor, compaixão e misericórdia para aqueles que estão aflitos e necessitados ,

nunca deixe de consolar e assistir aqueles que invoquem a sua poderosa intercessão!

 

Confiante e com a esperança que ouvirá as minhas preces e obterá para mim junto ao Senhor Deus a Graça especial e

o favor que reclamo do seu poder e bondade, muito lhe imploro a Graça de...................(mencionar aqui a Graça desejada).

 

E ainda São Bento, a Graça para Glória de Deus e para a salvação da minha alma.  Amém!"

 

 

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                                                  *Desejo a todos,muita paz de espírito e alegria no coração!

                    Muita proteção do Altíssimo Deus,na nossa grande estrada da vida!

                          Que sejamos fortalecidos na Fé e Esperança de dias melhores!*

 

                                                  Um forte e fraterno abraço!

                                                               NBorges

                   www.neideborges.com.br

                                                       

 

 

 

BOMBEIRO PELADO - calendário 2008

 

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Eu sabia que você não ia resistir e olhar! hehehe!!Repasse para as garotas e para os caras com bom humor.

 

terça-feira, julho 08, 2008


Crônica do Mario Prata - publicada em 1994. Vale a pena ler.


 FILHO É BOM, MAS DURA MUITO...

O Estado de S. Paulo        07/09/1994                      
                                                                         
       - Aproveita agora, porque depois que o seu filho nascer, você nunca mais vai ter sossego na vida. Você nunca mais vai dormir.        
                                                                        
                                                                        
       -  Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não tem cólicas noturnas e ainda mama nas horas certas, porque depois a sua vida se transformará num verdadeiro inferno noturno.        
                                                                         
                                                                       
       -  Aproveita agora, que os dentinhos dele não começaram a nascer e, quando  isso acontecer, não vai ter Nenedent que acalme nem ele nem você.                              
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   enquanto  ele  não  engatinha,   porque quando começar  a arrasar a casa e a derrubar cadeiras e bibelôs e lustres e a comer jornal, só vai dar dor de cabeça.       
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   antes  que  ele  comece  a  andar. Aí acaba o sossego.  É o perigo dele bater a cabeça nas quinas das mesas, cair e  meter  a  boca  no chão, puxar panela no fogão. É um transtorno, filho andando. Ele correndo pela casa e você atrás.               
                                                                                                                                                    
       -  Aproveita  agora,   enquanto  ele  ainda não está na fase do "Por que?" -   porque depois  você  não  vai conseguir ler nem jornal nem livro  e  nem  ver  televisão. 

 E  vai  ter  que  explicar sempre o inexplicável.                                          
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não sabe ler e pedir o que quiser no  restaurante.  A  única  vantagem  é  você  não  precisar  ficar traduzindo os filmes para ele.                      
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   enquanto  você  programa as férias dele e ele ainda não ouviu falar na Disneyworld, porque você vai ter que pegar filas de duas horas e enfrentar montanhas russas no escuro.

                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que ele ainda não é tarado por música, porque quando ele resolver  ouvir  "música"   na sua casa - com ou sem os amigos  -,   até  os  vizinhos  mais simpáticos irão reclamar. E não pense que ele vai tocar aquelas músicas do seu tempo, não.                                                                     

 

                                                
       -  Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não entrou na adolescência. Pois, quando  entrar,   você  nunca  mais  vai ter sossego, nunca mais vai dormir.   Não   se  esqueça  da  íntima  relação  entre  a  palavra adolescência e adoecer. Não ele, mas sim você.                    
                                                                         
                                                                         
       - Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não está nem fumando maconha e nem acabando  com  o  seu  uísque  e  aquela  cervejinha que você tinha certeza que estava na geladeira te esperando do trabalho. 

                                                                         
                                                                         
       -   Aproveite  agora,   que  ele  ainda  não  está  andando  em  más companhias,   porque  você vai ter que aturar figuras saídas sabe-se lá  de  onde,   com  cabelos,   brincos  e  tatuagens que você jamais poderia imaginar um dia conviver.                   
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que  ele ainda não tomou nenhuma bomba e você ainda  acha  que  ele  é  tudo  que  você sonhou, porque quando ele repetir o ano você fará - para você mesmo - a eterna pergunta: meu Deus, onde foi que eu errei?             
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não decidiu que faculdade cursar, porque  a  escolha  dele  não vai nunca coincidir com os planos que você fazia para ele, quando ele ainda engatinhava.                
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que ele ainda não entrou na faculdade, porque quando entrar vai pedir um carro para ele ou usar o seu.          
                                                                         
                                                                         
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que ele ainda avisa quando vai dormir fora de casa.  e  você  pode  dormir  sossegado  e  não  pensar em ligações desagradáveis  para a polícia, o hospital e, o pior de tudo, para o IML.                                                              
                                                                                                                                                   
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que ele ainda não se casou, porque depois ele nunca   mais  vai  te  visitar,   a  não  ser  para  pedir  dinheiro emprestado.                                                       
                                                                         
                                                                         
       - Aproveita agora, enquanto ele ainda não tem filhos, porque quando
       tiver  é  você  quem  vai tomar conta deles nos fins de semana. Seu
       sossego chegará ao fim, logo agora que você se aposentou.         
                                                                         
                                                                         
      - Aproveita agora, que ele ainda não se separou da primeira esposa, pois quando isso acontecer ele virá morar novamente na sua casa.  
                                                                                                                                                 
       -  Aproveita  agora,   que  ele  ainda  te ajuda com um dinheirinho, porque  a sua aposentadoria não dá para nada, pois a segunda mulher dele vai ser contra a ajuda.                                                                                                               
                                                                         
       - Aproveita agora, porque ele está pensando em te colocar num asilo de velhinhos.                                                     
                                                                       
                                                                        
                                                                         
                                                                                                                                                  
      PS  - A frase do título é do Marcelo von Zuben, dentista brasileiro|
      que mora em Portugal, pai do Murilo e da Úrsula. 

quinta-feira, junho 26, 2008

A grande aventura de ser pai
Por André Santoro
O dia: 6 de março de 2006. Manhã chuvosa em São Paulo. No horário marcado, estamos lá. Eu, Cris e Mateus – ainda dentro da barriga da mãe. Na maternidade, depois da papelada de sempre, tomamos o rumo da sala de parto. A cesárea tinha sido marcada com antecedência, mas nem por isso a ansiedade era menor. O pai, vestido como manda o figurino, com avental, máscara, touca e protetor para os pés, aguarda ser chamado pela equipe médica. É a hora. Dentro da sala, cheiro de barriga queimada pelo bisturi. Lágrimas. Fotografias fora de foco. Belchior e Caetano se esparramam num pequeno aparelho de som ao lado da mesa de cirurgia. Mais lágrimas. Mais fotos. E, de repente, o choro. Nasceu! 4,025 kg. Um meninão, cheio de saúde. É o nosso filho. O meu filho.

Em casa, outra vida toma conta do ambiente. Fraldas, roupinhas, pomadas, lencinhos umedecidos, um quarto inteiro só para ele. E um pai que, apesar da experiência distante com os irmãos mais novos, ainda teria muito que aprender nos meses seguintes. Limpar o cocô, ajudar na amamentação – isso ninguém conta, mas o início do processo é um bocado sofrido –, esquecer das oito horas sagradas de sono (substituídas por litros de café)... Tudo isso faz parte de um processo que os especialistas começam a chamar de paternagem – o cuidado do cotidiano que é exercido pela figura paterna. Nos meses e anos seguintes, os desafios são outros.

Os especialistas garantem: um pai presente e colaborativo ajuda, e muito, no desenvolvimento da criança, do primeiro choro até a adolescência. Na família tradicional não havia espaço para que o pai participasse ativamente da criação dos filhos. Hoje isso mudou e vários casais se abrem para uma experiência diferente, em que há uma partilha das responsabilidades de forma mais igualitária. Cada casal tem o seu jeito de cuidar dos filhos e, por isso, não há fórmulas mágicas para que todos encontrem um caminho saudável. Mas a aproximação paterna sempre vale a pena. "De um jeito ou de outro, ela traz um ganho significativo para os filhos", garante a psicóloga Milena da Rosa Silva, da Universidade Federal do Rio Grande do Sul. E você, o que está esperando? Nunca é tarde para trocar a primeira fralda – ou para ajudar o filho com a lição de casa.

terça-feira, junho 17, 2008

Nappy Tips & folds

Nappy Tips & folds

 

How much time have you spent researching equipment for your baby? Nappies are the most used piece of equipment and the closest thing to your babies skin. So - they are worth the most research.

How to get the most out of this page.

If you have the time, it is worth reading the complete version of this page. Or click on the subheadings below and go strait to the section that most interests you. Bookmark this page or send to a friend.


How Do I use Cloth Nappies on My Baby?

see tips and folds below

Why use cloth nappies and what you need if you do
• Organising an efficient Nappy Change Area
• Nappy Folds
• Washing Tips

• Disposable Nappies: Use and disposal
• Financial comparisons of different nappies
• When should your child be out of nappies?

Okay I admit it, I am a nappy fiend. Some people love baby fashion, well I love nappies and I enjoy testing different designs. Change time is rarely a chore, always a joy being a special time for chatting and play with my babies and folding nappies and trying out new styles. The dominant belief is that nappies are a chore. They don't have to be! Our society currently has an unhealthy imbalance towards using disposables and I would love to see a revival of a healthy cloth nappy culture for our children's children sake.


Why use cloth nappies and what you need if you do
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When you are well organised and set up with a great cloth nappy system, it is really easy and efficient. Many parents start out using cloth but without proper support and advice find the system unsustainable. Your friends will watch you just can't wait to see you fail! Prove them wrong. If you are in a social circle where few mothers use cloth, you may feel isolated. We hope this page helps you spread the news about why cloth nappies can be easy and are good for all of us. Parents used cloth nappies successfully for centuries because they supported each other with tips and advice, this advice is getting harder to find.

If you use cloth now, you probably notice that a lot of people express their guilt about using disposables but don't know where to go for help about cloth options nor how convenient they are. If you know how to use cloth well, you can help others.

• Cloth nappies are much cheaper than disposables. I have estimated that parents spend about AUS$3500-4000 on nappies for one child from birth. See below for detailed cost comparisons

• Cloth nappies can be a healthier option for your baby. Many parents find that babies have less nappy rash. Considering the advertising campaigns from disposable companies you may find this hard to believe! I deal with customers all the time who cannot use disposables due the rash they cause in babies. Cotton nappies mean your babies skin can breathe.

• Cloth nappies are a responsible environmental choice. You can make your own detergents or purchase earth-friendly brands to wash them in, thereby not contributing bleaches or chemicals to our water table in the washing process.

• It takes thousands of gallons of water, paper from our trees and bleach and chemical absorbers to make disposables look white, clean and fresh when you pull them out of a packet.

What Are Your Cloth Nappy Options?

1. Fitted Cloth-nappies: These nappies look like disposables; they have gathered elastic at the legs and use Velcro or snap closures. Velcro,
snap, or pull on nappy covers can be used with fitted nappies. No folding or pinning is required.

2. Square Terry towelling nappies have been used successfully for centuries - You just need to know how to fold it effectively! They don't need to restrict babies legs or leak as some people think. I am still grateful to my midwife who showed me some great tips which I now pass on to other parents. see folding tips below. If you are a midwife involved in pre-natal and post-natal education , let your customers know about these great tips.

3 - Flannelette Square nappies, folded the same as terry nappies and need pins or a quality nappy cover to hold them in place. Great for newborns when they are tiny as they are not bulky.

4 - Muslin Nappies: Same benefits as flannelette and they make great nappy liners or wipe cloths when you know longer use them as nappies.

Some nappy covers are now designed to hold a terry towelling, muslin or flannelette nappies in a rectangle pad shape, reducing the need for folding or using clips. This is a really convenient way to use cloth nappies.

4 - If you can't stand the idea of washing pooey nappies, nappy liners are wonderful! Cloth ones are cheaper and keep babies bum really dry and help prevent nappy rash. Disposable ones cannot be thrown down the toilet, they will clog your system, unless you get a biodegradable brand, and then they are brilliant and mean you never have to scrape the poo.

5 - Nappy covers need to be breathable and not bulky. Try a few out until you find one you like. Avoid PVC and plastic, babies skin will not breathe in these fabrics.

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Organising an efficient Nappy Change Area

A safe nappy change area is one where the baby is comfortable. Your back support is also a major factor - have your change table at the appropriate height for you so it is user-friendly. You will visit this area many times daily so make it a well organised and attractive area to visit and use. A change table is essential. Don't get into the habit of changing nappies on the lounge or bed. You will need to stoop low for this method which is harmful for your back and potentially messy on your bed/lounge. It also makes nappy changes seem like a chore. A well organised and attractive change area will make your day flow smoothly.

Baby Change tables have traditionally been designed to take up little space with shelves below for you to access. A flat dining table raised to your body height can also be efficient if you have the space. This table will have other uses once the nappy years have passed. Place a waterproof change mat in the middle of the table and have your nappies and accessories to your left and right. Place large nappy bins for washing under the table and small nappy bins next to your change area for small re-usable or throw away items.

Thanks to our customer Jane Little and her photo of her change area at home shown here

What you need in your change area
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Preparing your nursery and nappy change area is an important part of nesting and is loads of fun. After reading our suggestions below, think carefully about the type of change area that will suit you and your home best.

1 x table: A baby change table. When looking at designs in baby stores, consider how sturdy it seems, how much room it will take up in your nursery or bedroom, the height for you, how practical it is to access what you need. A long flat table that can be adapted for other uses in later years is also a great option.

1 x nappy hanger, shelf or basket to store nappies. Avoid cupboards with doors as these become cumbersome. Easy access is what you need most.

1 x small shelf or basket to store creams and accessories, placed close by the change mat but not within reach of your growing baby.

1pkt x cotton wool for wiping bottoms (healthy and inexpensive disposable option - no preservatives, just add water)

1 x re-usable nappy wipes
1 x nappy liners storage
1 x small bucket of warm water

1 x talc-free baby powder
1 x healing barrier cream for bottoms. Not essential for every change
1 x baby massage oil

2 small buckets on table top for easy disposal of dirty wipes. One for nappy wipes to wash and one for cotton wool for composting.
2 large washing bucket under table. I for nappies. I for clothes.

A couple of changes of clothes handy. Ideally, your baby wardrobe stored nearby your change table if you can for ease and efficiency.
Newborns need many changes of clothes per day.

1 x small toy or mobile for play (4 months onwards)
1 x music mobile or tape player with relaxing music on standby

Apart from the practical basics, include attractive wall and play features and make this an enjoyable area for you and your baby. It also makes life easier for friends and family to change nappies with no fuss.

1 x earth-friendly disinfectant for wiping and cleaning change table area once a week. You can make your own Ti-tree or Lavender disinfectant by adding a few drops to warm water then wipe down the area. Do not use commercial brand disinfectants, these are highly toxic.

1 x chemical-free moisturiser for your hands after nappy changing.

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What you need to buy
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Full-time Square Cloth Nappies
12 Muslin or Flannelette for newborns
24 Terry Towelling Nappies for newborn to 3 yrs
12 - 24 cloth nappy liners ( optional )
50 biodegradable nappy liners per fortnight ( optional )
3 Snappy closures to hold nappy on or 12 nappy pins
12 nappy covers; newborn and larger sizes to grow into
earth-friendly detergents and nappy soak or bi-carb, vinegar and essential oils.
Optional: 6 fitted-cloth nappies to make going out trips easier

Full-time Fitted-Cloth Cloth Nappies
24 nappies
12 - 24 cloth nappy liners ( optional )
50 biodegradable nappy liners per week
6 nappy covers; newborn and larger sizes to grow into
earth-friendly detergents and nappy soak or bi-carb, vinegar and essential oils.

Nappy Wipes
Use re-usable nappy wipes. Ones made from terry towelling or flannelette are ideal.
Cotton Wool balls from your supermarket are a safe if you need a disposable on occasions.
Packaged Nappy wipes can be handy in emergencies but are an expensive on-going cost to use full-time and the ingredients are not ideal to be using regularly on babies skin. Skin is an organ that absorbs everything.

Full-time Disposable Nappy System
Newborn 50 per week
3 months + 40 per week
50 biodegradable Nappy liners per week to collect poo for disposal or 24 Cloth nappy liners to re-use against their skin from newborn to 3 yrs.
Customer Tip
I have added a nappy liner made from polar fleece which I put next to her skin as I find that it draws the moisture away from her so nappy rash should be reduced and as it is reusable, environmentally friendly. Denise Talbot

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Nappy Folds courtesy of Nature's Child and Sydney Nappy Wash
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WAYS TO FOLD YOUR SQUARE NAPPIES

It's fun to experiment with different ways of folding nappies. After all, you have 2 - 3 years of nappying ahead of you, have some fun by trying different methods. You will soon find one that suits you the best.

Before disposables became so common, mothers would often create new designs and share ideas. Nowadays, we need to print pages like this. You can help spread the word and support nappy culture by sharing these ideas with you friends. Have fun, and let us know if you come up with an new useful folds.

With all these folds, remember to tuck the nappy up under the baby's thigh. This eliminates leg restriction and leakage.

Here are a few to get you started.

1. The Traditional Kite

KITE
Fold side flaps to the centre.
Fold top down.
Fold bottom corner up.
A fastener will be needed.
Better for older babies.

NITE KITE
Step one, tie as above.
Step two: take a second nappy and fold it into a rectangle shape. Then place it in the centre of the nappy for extra absorbency. If you find this too bulky for your baby, sew or buy nappy doublers, which we have described how to make above.


2. My personal favourite, absorbent but not bulky.

Fold nappy in half away from you.
Take top layer of corner A to corner B, (see diagram 2) making a triangle as in diagram 3.
Turn nappy over so that the triangle is underneath.
Fold the square part twice so that the wadding is centre front.
Very absorbent.

3. The Cone

Fold all four points to the centre.
Fold each side over one third.
Fan out the top of the nappy, holding where indicated in diagram 3.
A compact fit.

4. Corners



Fold two sides in to form a square (the amount of these first two folds is determined by the size of the baby - more for a smaller baby, less for a larger baby).
Fold the thickest corner over to make a triangle.
Place baby on the triangle and bring up corner 1.
Follow diagrams 5 & 6, tucking corners 2 & 3 between baby's legs.
Bring up corner 4 & fasten together with flaps 2 & 3 as per diagram 7, leaving corner 1 between fastener & baby's skin.
Snug around baby's legs. Minimises leakage.

5. PARALLEL

Fold bottom corner up and top corner down to overlap. (Amount of overlap depends on the size of the baby.)
Fold left corner so its top edge is level with the top fold.
Repeat with the right corner.
Fasten with two fasteners.

6. TRIANGLE



Fold nappy in half to make a triangle.
Fold again to make a smaller triangle.
Only one fastener required.
Best for a small baby. As baby grows, fold only once.

TRIANGLE VARIATION

Fold nappy in half.
Fold top edge down. (Amount folded down will depend on baby's size.)
One fastener required.

MAKE YOUR OWN NAPPY INSERTS
Use Towelling, old nappies or flannelette fabric. Double the thickness if using flannelette.
cut a simple rectangle shape

Nappy inserts are a great to put in all styles of fitted baby pants, or as doublers in an type of nappy fold. Especially nighttimes.
Newborn size 14cm x 44 - use one or two at a time
Medium size ( from 3/4 months old 28 cm x 50cm - use one or two at a time. Use three at nighttimes or when bigger.
Or simply fold your square nappies to shape.

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Washing Tips
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How Do I Store and Wash Cloth Nappies and Covers?
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1. Wet Method: Fill your nappy pail about a quarter full with cold water; add a half cup of baking soda and vinegar, or environmentally friendly pre-wash soak. If you are using a wet pail, make sure you keep the lid closed and lock the laundry if you have toddlers who like to explore! After shaking off any excess poo into the toilet, simply toss nappies into the pail. When the bucket is full, toss the entire contents of the pail into the washing machine. Run nappies through a spin cycle to get rid of dirty water, then wash on longest cycle HOT/COLD with your favourite earth-friendly detergent or half cup of baking soda. Use vinegar in your fabric softener dispenser, or add during the rinse cycle. Sun to dry. Rinse out your nappy bucket with hot water and optionally with ti-tree or lavender which is a natural disinfectant.

2. Dry Method: This may be preferable if you have an inquisitive toddler in the house. Also great if you are the one doing the washing and may find a wet bucket too heavy to lift into the machine. The Dry method is back friendly as there is little weight when you need to carry the bucket. BETTER DURING THE DROUGHT or if you are on land relying on tank water.

Sprinkle some baking soda in your nappy bucket. It is optional to add a few drops of lavender or tea tree as well. If you are using a disposable liner, throw soiled biodegradable liner in toilet and toss wet nappy into the bucket. If the nappy is soiled, scrape the poop into the toilet, run cold water over the nappy, spray some stain remover on the diaper, and throw it into the bucket. Keep lid closed. When you are ready to wash, put nappies in machine with a half cup of baking soda or your favourite earth-friendly detergent and pre-soak in cold water for about up to an hour. Wash with detergent on longest cycle HOT/COLD. Put vinegar in fabric softener dispenser or rinse cycle if you feel it is necessary. Put your nappies in dryer for at least 60 minutes or hang in sun to dry. Toddlers love to help hang out nappies!

3. Washing Nappy Covers: Covers can be washed with your nappies as above. Or you can prolong their life by washing them separately in a smaller bucket. If you soak them for a couple of hours, they are easy to hand wash when you are ready.

If using machine wash, use a WARM/GENTLE cycle. Always consult washing instructions on your covers and decide which will work best for you. Covers should not go in the dryer; after washing, be sure to remove from washer and hang to dry.

STORING NAPPIES

Wet nappies and rinsed soiled ones can be placed in a dry lidded bucket while waiting to be washed. Alternatively use one of the soaking solutions below.

Fill your nappy bucket (approximately 9 litres)
1/2 - 3/4 full of water. If desired add: 2-3 tbs white distilled vinegar.

OR
Add 1 tbs sodium bicarbonate
OR
Add 5 drops tea tree oil - readily available from health food shops, supermarkets or chemists.
OR
Add 1 tbs sanitizing powder - from chemists or health food shops (for an environmental, nappy and baby friendly alternative)
Mix to dissolve, then add nappies throughout the day. Change the solution daily.

Some of these soaking and washing methods may not be suitable for some nappies - if in doubt consult your retailer. We accept no responsibility for damage caused by the use or misuse of this. If you prefer a pre-mixed soak for your nappies, contact us at Nature's Child. We sell Tri-Nature products for washing & soaking made from organic ingredients that get great results.

WASHING

Boiling washing is the traditional way of washing and sterilizing traditional nappies e.g. terries. Done regularly it may reduce the life of the nappy so is not generally recommended by manufacturers. A hot wash cycle at 60oC will adequately cleanse nappies and prolong the life of the fabric.

DRYING

Sunshine will deodorize, sanitize and naturally bleach nappies OR line dry indoors. The sun will also bleach out any minor stains left on nappies after washing. Most nappies can also be tumble dried.

USEFUL TIPS

A small plastic bin (about 20 Litres) with secure lid may be more convenient than a conventional nappy bucket, just double the solution. Biological detergent's as well as perfumes, optical whiteners and other ingredients in ordinary washing detergents may cause skin irritation so these are best avoided. Adding 1/2 - 3/4 cup of vinegar in the last rinse cycle will keep nappies soft. BEWARE: commercial fabric conditioner will reduce the absorbency of nappies. If you would like your nappies to be softer, give them a flick before hanging them on the line, this helps fluff the fabric. If your nappy still seems a bit rough, try reducing the amount of detergent you use.

Customer Tip
This washing tip from Evelyn from … who has a daughter with many allergies. "We soak nappies in hot water with a TBLSP Borax, then wash in LUX and add vinegar (1/4 cp) to rinse cycle, Ellen's nappies are always white. We air everything out so it looses it new smell, this helps avoid reactions. The eenies range of nappies has to be first choice for any mum, although Ellen does not tolerate the pads the nappies and pants are just so wonderful. Hope this helps"

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Disposable Nappies: Use and disposal
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Every mainstream parenting magazine is full of disposable companies with big budgets telling you how great their nappies are with cute photos of babies looking very clean and happy. Even front cover shots of babies have them wearing disposables. Dolls you buy in toy shops now come with disposable nappies included. We don't have the big budgets that these nappy companies have but we do have got a great network of people who are keen to share this information. Please use this information as a discussion point amongst friends, parenting groups, midwives and on-line at your chat rooms. Please note that much of our statistical information comes from the USA or Britain as these are the only countries that have completed studies on the issue of nappies that we are aware of. If you know of an Australian study, please let us know.

* Many hospitals offer disposables to parents now for new babies. Mothers are not being trained in the benefits of cloth from the beginning. It is optional not compulsory to be shown how to use cloth nappies. Ask your midwife to cover nappy folding as part of your pre-natal education.

* Disposable Swimmers were introduced in 1997. I remember because I had just had my first baby. I didn't think they would be popular, it seemed like such a ridiculous idea to me. Looking at the financial cost, one summer swimming every day could cost you $70 and all the waste. One pair of washable swimmers will cost you $19.95 and last for one full year. Cute colours and great advertising campaigns make them popular.

* The "Less nappy changes" theory is often dangerous as there is more likely that children will be carrying a heavy load around with a very wet nappy and gels can break through and touch their skin quicker. The effect of these gels on skin is still unknown.

* Disposables have only been used on such a wide scale for 8 - 10 years now. They started to take off in the 1980's but only became widespread with massive advertising campaigns in the nineties. We haven't used them long enough as a society to fully understand their impact on our environment. But after 40 years, we have worked out that it is a major problem coming - let's not wait until it gets to that point!


Pictured: Mathew from Morayfield with their two year old daughter. Mathew and Anita Gray take their nappy composting seriously. This is what they discovered when deciding to be responsible for all their nappy waste.

"we decided to try to compost the standard disposable nappies she wore each night, rather than just bin them. We would rip them open and dump them in the compost bin, and each time we turned the compost, I turned the nappies too. We found that we had huge numbers of worms attacking the nappies, but even when they had been in there for a year, there was still a lot left over. You can see from this pile that you end up with lots of bits of dirty plastic, but we did manage to generate a lot of good compost (note garden in background). The biggest problem is making sure the nappy contents have broken down completely--the water/air exposure has to be just right. Which it most likely never will be at the local garbage tip. Too dry, it does nothing, to wet, anaerobic decomposition, not pleasant.

We estimated that this pile of plastic is one year of one nappy per night.

Why use Disposables?

The ease, the convenience … no one can dispute it. They are only as popular as they are because they have filled a need for parents. But a little bit of thought and education (as we hopefully demonstrate on this page) can change this situation around.

• They are convenient
• They save time, they are effective ( some brands ) and you have less nappy changes. (Fitted cloth nappies offer the same benefits)
• They also create a huge amount of waste, they stink and are contributing to a major environmental disaster.
• less laundry
• Disposing of them in plastic bags makes their biodegradability even longer

If you are using disposables, here are some things you can do to reduce waste & health hazards.

1 - Use a cloth liner next to their skin to prevent contact with gels in the nappy
2 - Dispose of faeces in the toilet before throwing away the nappy.
3 - Take responsibility for the rubbish you are creating and dispose of them on your own property if you have one.
4 - Use a compostable disposable nappy with no plastic outers that won't break down.


Soil Degradation Trials with standard disposable nappies and weenee composting nappies

Independent test by the University of Tasmania show the difference in degradation between Weenees Disposable Pads and typical 'plastic'
disposable nappies. Results under Tasmanian Summer conditions show that Weenees degrade in soil burial after 134 days, earth worm trials after 71-80 days and 111 days in septic tank trials. Where as the plastic components of typical disposable nappies (approx 30% by weight of the
nappy) remained largely intact. The paper pulp portion of the typical nappies was restricted in degrading taking 148 days under soil burial,
140 days in earth worm trials & 143 days in septic tank conditions. Below are some photos showing soil burial trials:-

Weenies disposable pads either side of typical "plastic" disposable diaper prior to soil burial
After 6 weeks
After 22 Weeks
After ten years

Some Facts: courtesy of Mothering Magazine (USA) and Nature's Child (AUS)

Nappies are contributing to a major environmental and health disaster. Here's Why:

* The first disposable hit the market in the USA in 1961

* In 1971, Highway clean up programs found that nappies were the largest source of litter on highways. (USA study)

* 1975 The environmental protection authority in the USA warns that rainwater washing through tips carry live intestinal and vaccine viruses due to risk of open sewerage at tips from disposable nappies

* Between 16 - 32% of waste at tips has been assessed as disposable nappy waster in the USA

* 1988 Big disposable nappy companies paid researchers to investigate whether disposable nappies are environmentally safe and concluded that they were - on what basis?

* 2000 A German study links plastic to male infertility, suggesting scrotal temperature is significantly higher on boys in disposable nappies. ( I have a copy of the preliminary study if you would like one posted to you )

*Disposable nappies are thought by many to be a health hazard due to the potentially dangerous chemicals used to create them. Sodium Polyacrylate, which makes disposable diapers so absorbent, often comes loose from the diaper, appearing as small crystals on your baby's skin. It has also been found in the urinary tract of babies and has caused severe nappy rash and bleeding in perineal and scrotal tissue in some babies. No independent studies have been conducted on the safety of this chemical; consequently, many parents simply do not want it touching their babies' skin and genital areas. In addition to Sodium Polyacrylate, organochlorins (chlorinated toxic chemicals) are also found in disposable diapers, albeit in trace amounts. Polyvinyl chloride (PVC), also found in disposables, has been known to cause cancer.

* one nappy takes 150 - 300 years to break down, depending on which study you read.

*Disposable nappies account for up to 30% of the non-biodegradable waste in landfills. In today's wasteful society, cloth diapering is one large way to reduce the amount of garbage we contribute to the landfills.

* Dumping raw sewerage is illegal yet we do it with disposable nappies. If you use a night disposable - please empty the contents in the toilet before you bin the nappy.

*Raw Faeces in landfill means live vaccines and intestinal virus floating out there, making there way back to our water tables. What goes around, comes around.

To read more about landfill problems, check out these web sites. Australian does not have such factual information available as yet, but we can learn from the UK and US experience. Check out www.realnappy.com or do your own searches on the web. We have provided just a snippet of information here, we encourage you to do your own research and base your conclusions on facts rather than urban myths.

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Financial comparisons of different nappies
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There are many ways to view the cost of nappies; health, environment and financial. Here are some financial comparisons to consider.
These costs are based on research at my local supermarket, department stores and Nature's Child in Australia in June 2003. Total objectivity is difficult due to the price difference in branding. These prices can be reduced by using hand-me-downs and looking out for specials. These costs are based on the most popular selling brands names.

Full-time Disposable Nappy System
Financial Cost (Prices vary depending on store purchased from and brand used) 0 - 4yrs
Newborn 50 per week 50 Nappies @ 40c each = $20/week = $1040/year
3 months + 40 per week 40 Nappies @ 50c each = $20/week
50 biodegradable liners 1pkt/ fortnight @6.95 for 3yrs $542 (optional but strongly recommended for health and safety)
1 year toddler night nappies @ 65c each = $232

Total Cost for full time disposables with 1 year of toddler night nappies & biodegradable nappy liners = $3894
Total Cost for full time disposables for 2 Children this would be a total of $7,788

Full-time Square Cloth Nappies for 3 years with some fitted nappies for outings using earth-friendly detergents and quality fitted nappy covers

10 Muslin or Flannelette for newborns $70
24 Terry Towelling Nappies for newborn to 3 yrs $60
24 cloth nappy liners ( optional ) $72
6 Snappy closures to hold nappy on or 24 nappy pins $30
12 nappy covers all sizes @ $15 ea $180
earth-friendly detergents and nappy soak $408 $2.60/week
subtotal $820
Optional Extras
6 fitted-cloth nappies & liners for outings $113.70
50 biodegradable nappy liners per fortnight $538
total $1472

Most of these items can be re--used on a second child, additional covers and closures and detergents will be required at a cost of $618 per child. This cost is spread over 3 years. $3.96/week

Full-time one-size fits all Fitted-Cloth Cloth Nappies
24 Fitted Cloth nappies, liners and covers $499
50 biodegradable nappy liners per fortnight $538 optional
earth-friendly detergents and nappy soak $408 $2.60/week
total without liners $907
total with liners $1445

Full-time Cloth Nappies on the cheap
24 nappies @ $30 pkt $60
12 - 24 cloth nappy liners @ $3 each $72
18 pull-on nappy covers @ 4.95 ea. $89
6 Snappy closures to hold nappy on or 24 nappy pins $30
earth-friendly detergents and nappy soak $408 $2.60/week
or bi-carb, vinegar and essential oils.
subtotal $659


• with one disposable per night @40c each/ 3 years add $427 to above costs

• Most of these items can be re--used on a second child, additional covers and closures and detergents will be required at a cost of
• $527 per child spread over 3 years. $3.37/week

• Nappy Wipes are an additional cost to all of the above. If you purchase a commercial, disposable brand on a regular basis @ $5 per fortnight, this adds up to an extra $390. Re-usable Nappy Wipes that can be stored easily in your nappy bag and on your change table will cost approximately $65 for the same period.

When should your child be out of nappies?
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• Before 1961, parents used cloth nappies full time and usually had babies out of nappies before two years and often one year. Ask your mum and grandma. Why 1961? Because that's when the first disposable nappy was invented as far as we know! Disposable Nappies are too easy and keep babies in nappies longer than necessary, delaying toilet training.

• Australian parents use of disposables are reaching levels similar to those in the USA and UK due to mass marketing campaign in the last ten years.

• Toddler toilet training disposables were introduced 10 years ago. These prolong the need for toddlers to be in nappies with cute ideas such as pull-up styles, where usually parents would have trained them by this age. This prolongs the financial cost, waste stress and time for parents

• Start actively discussing the toilet with your child from 1 year old. Have a potty or toilet seat adapter for them and make this routine part of your day. Consistency and reward is the key!

This information has been compiled by Jannine Barron.

© CEO Nature's Child Pty Ltd

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